If you just added a new parrot to your family, it can be a disappointment to find out it’s not tame. What in the world are you going to do with this fearful and possibly aggressive bird? Will it ever be a confident and maybe even cuddly pet? At this point, you’re probably asking yourself how to tame a parrot. Don’t panic: you and your bird will be best friends before you know it.

Below, Kate’s K9 Pet Care explains the basics of getting your parrot used to you and taking the first steps into parrot training.

How to tame a parrot: Negative or positive reinforcement?

What not to do

The very first thing you need to know in order to start taming and training a parrot is that these birds really don’t respond to negative reinforcement, better known as punishment. A parrot won’t understand why you’re punishing it, as like many animals, it’s not able to associate the penalty with the “crime”. It can become fearful and even aggressive as a result, thinking you may lash out unexpectedly at any time.

Yelling at a parrot just causes it to scream back. If you put it back in its cage when it behaves in a way you don’t like, it’ll begin seeing its home as a negative place. Swatting at, shoving, or even hitting a parrot will escalate any unwanted behaviors and can ruin its ability to bond with humans.

Tip: Some sources recommend your parrot’s wings be clipped for easier taming. We don’t see good reason for this. It’s perfectly possible to tame a parrot without taking away its ability to do what it was born to do: fly.

Positive reinforcement

Parrot training used to be based on dominance-based techniques. Luckily, we’ve gradually discovered that parrots respond much better to “focus on creating relationships based on clear communication and positive experiences“. So what does that mean in practice? Basically, what we’re after is to be a positive force in our parrot’s life. A great way to achieve this is to not punish unwanted behaviors (negative reinforcement), but rather, reward wanted behaviors (positive reinforcement).

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For a parrot, a reward can involve attention, access to a toy, and most importantly: a treat. Parrots will sell their soul for a sunflower seed, and with if you want to teach yours something, one way or another, with positive reinforcement using food you can probably achieve it. Taming a parrot involves exposing it to things it’s not used to (like your hands) and might be scared of, and teaching it that there’s nothing to be afraid of.

It’s not difficult to understand why rewards work much better here than force! Your bird will quickly learn that interaction with you means food and other rewards.

How to tame a parrot: Where to start

What will you need?

Technically, you don’t need anything to tame a parrot. Just a bird, a calm attitude and plenty of patience. That being said, there are a few tools that can come in very handy.

• Treats! The most important tool of all.
• An extra perch. Some birds really don’t want anything to do with your hands, so allowing yours to step up on a perch instead can really help in the initial stages.
• A clicker. Clicker training is not just for dogs: it works wonders with parrots as well.
• A (colored) stick. Target training (possibly combined with a clicker) is a handy way to convince your parrot to explore new things.

Getting started

Where to start in the taming process depends on your parrot. For the most fearful individuals, who might go into a thrashing panic from your presence alone, you’ll have to start really simple. Try just being around your bird while it’s in its cage. Keep relatively still at first, like by sitting down and reading a book next to the cage. Calmly speaking to the bird is also great.

Once your parrot appears relaxed in your presence, you can move on to moving around the cage. This way, it learns that you’re not coming at it to do something bad. Parrot looking comfy? You can now try to offer some food. A long sprig of millet is perfect to stick through the cage bars. It can take a bit before your parrot feels comfortable enough to go for the food, so be patient and keep trying! Eventually, it’ll cave and prioritize its love for snacks over its discomfort with humans. In the process, it’ll learn that your hand is not there to do anything bad to it.

Once it’s reliably eating food you offer through the cage bars, you can try offering food while your hand is inside the cage. Don’t move it towards the bird or anything: always let your parrot come to you, not the other way round. Once your parrot accepts food from your hands, the hardest part is over with. You’re now ready to move on to actual training, and you’ll find that in most cases, progress comes a lot quicker now that you can use treats as a motivation.

Even if your bird just steps onto your hand to eat, that’s already a big step!

How to tame a parrot: Target & clicker training

There are various ways to approach parrot training, but our personal preferred method is to use a target and clicker. The reason this type of training works not just for teaching your parrot intricate tricks, but also for initial taming, is that it helps motivate it to get over its fears in search of a reward. You tell it what you want it to do with the target, and then use the clicker to inform it that it’s about to receive a tasty treat.

If you’ve gotten to the stage where your parrot accepts treats from your hands, here’s how to tame a parrot further using target and clicker:

• Introduce the clicker. Just click every time you’re about to give your parrot a treat. Soon, it’ll know that a treat is imminent when it hears the clicking sound.
• Pick a target stick. A chopstick or a colored pencil works fine. What you’re after is to get the bird to understand that touching the target results in receiving a treat. This way, it’ll eventually follow the target anywhere, getting over its reservations in search of that tasty morsel.
• Introduce the target. Approach your parrot in a non-threatening manner with the stick. Most of them will be unable to resist touching or chomping the stick with their beaks. If that happens: click and treat!
• Place the target a bit further away next time. Eventually your parrot will walk or fly over to touch the stick whenever it sees it.
• Introduce the perch. You can open the cage door and present your parrot with a perch. Touch the perch with the target to entice the bird to come over and check the perch out, hopefully stepping up to touch the target. Click and treat to reward!
• Introduce your hand. If your parrot doesn’t seem overly scared of hands, you can soon start replacing the perch with your hand. Use the target and clicker to get your parrot to step up. Eventually, your bird should associate your hand with treats to the point where it’ll step up without even needing the cue from the target. Congrats, a big step!
• Introduce touch. Part of taming is teaching your parrot that being touched by you is nothing to be afraid of. You can use the clicker to work up to being able to gently tap your parrot’s beak. After that, you can do the same thing with body touch. Hopefully, trust will eventually build to a point where you won’t even need to use a treat anymore.
• Putting your parrot back in its cage. Training time over? Make sure going back into the cage is a positive experience for your bird. Fill up that food bowl so that it has something nice to come home to!

At this point, when it steps up and accepts touch, your parrot can be considered tame. By now, it’ll likely trust you and enjoy hanging out with you on a perch nearby. Maybe it even likes sitting on your shoulder or arm. Don’t stop training, though! Think about other desired behaviors you can teach. Maybe train your bird to accept its feet being touched for nail clipping, go into a travel cage willingly, and get along with other people besides yourself. For some species, you can even consider talking training!

Your target and clicker are your best friends here. They can be used to teach your bird pretty much anything, strengthening your bond along the way.

In time, many parrot owners develop a deep bond of trust with their bird.

Conclusion

Parrots are highly trainable birds. If you’ve added one to your family and it turns out it’s not tame, there’s no need to panic. With an understanding of how to tame a parrot through positive reinforcement (plus plenty of treats on hand), you’ll bond with your new friend in no time.

PS: we know it all sounds very easy when laid out here in bullet-points. In reality, in many cases, training is a process. Sometimes your parrot will suddenly take some steps backward, or just refuse to progress to the next one for a long time. Just don’t give up. Even when training doesn’t work out like you want it to, in the process of trying, you’re still strengthening your bond with your bird. You can find more handy parrot care tips and tricks in our parrot section.

Sources & further reading

Martin, S. (2007). The art of training parrots. Journal of Exotic Pet Medicine, 16(1), 11-18.